Stage Four Diagnosis

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O.k., everyone, here's the news.

It's metastasized to some bones, so that means it's stage 4 cancer, which, in other words, means incurable, but not untreatable.

Here's a quick rundown of our schedule this week:
Tuesday: 1:00pm second opinion with Dr. Tang at CU Denver Health
Wednesday: 9:30am Port Installation (the port will be used to administer the chemotherapy.) Immediately afterwards, I will head to the McKee Cancer Center to have a first round of chemo, which lasts 5 hours.
Thursday: 10:15 2-4 hours of IV fluids at Cancer Center

This may change depending on the outcome of Tuesday's appointment, but that's unlikely.

If you have more questions, feel free to post them here and Clark or I will answer them as we're able. I'll get Clark to list the specific cocktail of drugs for the research-happy among you.

Thank you for all your support and love. This is terrifying and devastating to all of us. We appreciate, in advance, all your love and concern and help.

Heather, Clark and the girls.

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